You are under construction.. advice for you twenties ♥

 Self reflection and self direction are loaded and difficult. This is an open discussion in pictures and words about being in your twenties. From someone in her twenties. 

   

I'm in my twenties! Now what?! A starting point to figure out if your happy! Choose your weapon (textas, pen, pencils) and just write everything you believe! Stuff you would tell another 'twentian'. Then ask yourself, do you practise what you preach? why not?

What I came up with: 

♥ It's ok to not know what you want to do. You are under construction, stop panicking. 

♥ Fear is only useful, when there is (imminent death or near death injury causing) danger. 

♥ You can say no, without making excuses. Saying "no" or "I don't feel like it" is enough. 

♥ Trust the universe - if you focus and state what you want, you will sub-consciously work towards that and the universe will provide. 

♥ L.O.V.E is not settling, it is not compromising. It is a cure for commitment phobia, it is where you can be the best person, you can be. It is what makes you lovely. 

♥ Having kids and marriage after your 20's is an amazing option. Make your own timeline, stop trying to be your mother, your friends, your enemies. 

♥ Candles, flowers, disney, journals, freedom of expression and animals are important and prized possessions, which need to be in your life EVERYDAY.

♥ Family like good health is precious and rare and go hand in hand. 

♥ You can be NEVER be over-educated. NEVER.

♥ Only be around people that get you. If your only friend is your dachshund because that's who lets you stay true to yourself, you will be happy! You won't be alone for long, like attracts like, look forward to ppl you will attract by being the best you can be. 

♥ Other people are going through their own crises, usually YOU are not the reason they are mad/annoyed. Choose compassion over defensiveness. 

♥ BE YOU. feed your mind and body with what you want. 

♥ Kisses for now, dear readers. If you have any advice to add, comment below ♥